"If you could touch the alien sand and hear the cries of strange birds, and watch them wheel in another sky, would that satisfy you?" - The Doctor, "An Unearthly Child"

Touch the alien sand....

Touch the alien sand....
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Monday, February 2, 2015

Doing My Who Diligence as a Father



This past weekend, I had a golden opportunity in this heyday of modern Doctor Who. I was able to get my kids, ages 7, 9 and 14, to watch a full 4-episode story of the Classic series. Understand, all three of them have seen various episodes of New Who, and my son (14) has a VERY passing familiarity with the Classic series. Key though, is that he hadn’t ever sat down to watch a full story, and my 2 girls had never seen ANY Classic story.

On Thursday night, my wife was in a rare (for her) mood to watch some Old School Doctor Who. OK, I suggested it and she agreed to it. She is a massive fan of Leela, and we have already seen most of her run, leaving few choices that wouldn’t be repeats or Underworld. Surprisingly, one we hadn’t yet watched was Image of the Fendahl, so there was our choice. We watched the first two episodes, then needed to call it a night. However, on Saturday she asked if we could finish it. Well, of course! Once the girls are in bed, we’ll fire it right up! Then the moment came that will ever warm my heart. “Why don’t we all watch it?” YES! Family Doctor Who night! I was giddy, the wife was amused, and the kids were excited… even the 14 year old who just agreed to watch an almost 40 year old TV show with his family on a Saturday night.

We settled in our family room and it began – and I was maybe a minute into it before my parental warning sirens went off.  Monsters? Check. Mysterious old ladies? Check. Oh yes, the Doctor assisting a suicide in the fourth episode? Check and double check. What on earth had I done?? Now my kids aren’t completely innocent to filmic violence and scary things – we’ve already done the Star Wars films (yes, all 6), the Avengers, Labyrinth, even ET which still makes me tear up 23 years later. But I felt this was different. To a degree I was right. My older daughter wasn’t scared by the Fendahleen which I thought she would, but LOST HER MIND over Ma Tyler’s fright in the woods. The suicide of Stael? Nobody blinked. But when Thea became the full Fendahl Core, her golden eyes unnerved all three of them. 

Then, it was over! Cute scene in the TARDIS with K9, theme song and done. I was worried what scars I may have given my kids so I asked what they thought. The 9-year old hated “when the old lady was screaming”, the 7 year old just “liked it”, and my son thought it was cool that Smaug’s mom was in the story. Bedtime came, everyone slept through the night, and no reports of nightmares from the two younger ones. I wouldn’t have expected the boy to admit to one even if he had stayed awake with the vision of a Fendahl over his bed.

I feel that as both a Dad and a Doctor Who fan, I had done my proper diligence by presenting this story. Sure it was a little scary, although not in the ways I could have predicted. I mean, not one was disturbed by the glowing skull? I’ve seen it before and Eustace always seems creepy to me! Gentle reminders that “it’s just a show, remember” seemed to be all that were needed to comfort the girls. My wife’s girl-crush on Leela remains unabated, while I’m pretty sure my son has a “crush” crush on Louise Jameson. As is right and proper, frankly. My only concern now is…. What episode should be next for family Who night?

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